The Power of Pleasure

Mill Valley, United States

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6 reviews

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Telephone:
+1 415-562-7018
Website:
www.powerofpleasure.com
Address:
110 Carlotta Cir, Mill Valley, CA, 94941
Nearby public transportation stops & stations:
2 miBridgeway & Ebbtide Ave
2.1 miBridgeway & Coloma St
2.2 miBridgeway & Harbor Dr
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By Appointment Only
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Today

Today 9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Open now
Local time (Mill Valley) 14:38 Wednesday, 4 June 2025

Business hours

Monday 9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Tuesday 9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Wednesday 9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Thursday 9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Friday 9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Saturday –
Sunday –

Description

Specialties

I am a sex and intimacy coach. I work with individuals (both men and women) and couples to help empower them around their sexuality and deepen relationship and intimacy skills. I help women overcome painful sex, loss of desire, and problems achieving orgasms. I help men overcome erectile dysfunction and early ejaculation. I help couples have better, more connected sex and enhanced intimacy and emotional connections.

History

Established in 2012.

I started this business as a result of my own journey of sexual awakening and healing. I was a health care lawyer married for 26 years and sexually shut down with painful sex and vaginismus. When I left my marriage, I had to address my own issues around sex and intimacy. The work that I did was so powerful and transformative, that I decided to become a sex and intimacy coach to help other people re-​connect with their sexuality.

Meet the Business Owner

Xanet P.

Business Owner

Xanet Pailet is a former lawyer turned sex and intimacy coach. She works with individuals and couples to help empower them around their sexuality and deepen relationship and intimacy skills. She works with individuals and couples who are sexually disconnected and helps them reclaim their pleasure and transform their relationships and their lives.

Xanet is a Somatica trained sex and intimacy coach, a certified tantra educator, and a certified sexological bodyworker. She is on the teaching faculty of the Institute for Ecstatic Living at Harbin Hot Springs and teaches workshops throughout the Bay Area.

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6 reviews of The Power of Pleasure

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Place rating: 5
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For the past several months I have been working with Xanet via FaceTime sessions once every 2 – 3 weeks. I have found Xanet to be supportive, nonjudgmental, understanding, and insightful. I have always felt safe with her and have complete confidence in her professional ethics and skills. She asks great questions to quickly get to the core of issues and mental blocks. She’s one intelligent and intuitive lady! My only regret is that I did not have the opportunity to work with her in person, one-​on-​one.
Xanet has helped me to learn how to open up my relationships with women from more than just superficial friendships by communicating with them in a way that allows me to express to them my feelings for them and my desires for relationship, and allows them to express the same to me. We can then craft together a relationship that is mutually satisfying and enjoyable.
For years I have been uncertain what it means for me to be a man. Through Xanet’s coaching and the resources she has pointed me to, I have achieved a better understanding of my own nature, a better understanding of women, and the ways in which masculine and feminine energy interact. I now have a much more firm understanding of my identity, and that gives me the confidence I lacked before in dealing with both men and women.
Place rating: 5
El Cerrito, CA
Xanet is a great resource for individual and couples who want to improve their sex life. I invited her to give a talk on sexuality to marriage counselors at The Couples Center. Xanet did an excellent job — she was engaging, knowledgeable and warm. She gave us practical information and also led some experiential exercises (cloths on…). She is genuine, trustworthy, easy to connect to and passionate about her work, which are all qualities that are essential when it comes to working with someone on a sensitive issue like your sexuality.
Place rating: 5
San Francisco, CA
Xanet is wonderful. She has been kind, patient and very understanding !! Xanet has made me comfortable, trusting her totally and opened up areas in me that I guard closely !! I truly appreciate and admire Xanet!
Thank you so much!
Place rating: 5
San Mateo, CA
Xanet has helped me explore my repressed sexuality in the most supportive and non-​judgmental way. She really has a special gift for providing tools to work through our most core issues. As a modern man I have struggled with my masculinity and shame around my sexuality. Xanet has helped me acknowledge and work through some of the toughest issues I could never do with my previous romantic partners. The gateway to my entire life feels open now that I can own my sexuality.
Her Master Lover workshop is the sexual education that every man should have received before he had sex for the first time. It takes a brave man to learn what she teaches and I promise you will not regret what you learn. Suddenly women are not a frustrating mystery and you understand they simply have different responses than males. You learn tools to enjoy pleasure with another person instead of seeing them as a goal to achieve or task to complete. Trust me, the ladies will beg for that.
Find the courage within yourself to own your sexuality. Let Xanet assist you with that and take the time to listen to her story. I even hosted her on my podcast and you can hear the brilliant things she has to say and her story of how she started this work.
Place rating: 5
San Francisco, CA
Xjanet is an amazing body coach! I had 7 sessions and learned new secrets about my sexual response. She also provides enlightened options in dating and making relationships work on a practical day-​to-​day level. She taught me how to connect my breathing and sexual response; I am still learning this.
Stella
Place rating: 5
Larkspur, CA
My experience through the sensual teachings of Power of Pleasure has been one of the most important of my life. Xanet is not only very knowledgeable, insightful and caring, but exhibits sensual energy that is very powerful. Her multifaceted abilities to help couples with their relationships, individual’s with their intimacy issues, and everyone understand their body’s energy through sensual touch makes her the Supreme Goddess of Pleasure. I have been helped with my own intimacy issues and with improving the sex life with those that are special in my life. Understanding how the energy in my body functions was really important to all facets of my life. I only hope she will be available to me in the afterlife too! Wish I could rate her six (sex) stars as no one can equal her!