Couples Counseling with Todd

Specialties

Do you love your partner, but find that your partner does not understand or accept you?

Does everything you do seem to not work? Does your partner trigger your anxiety? Do you find that you feel insecure about their commitment level even though you do not know why? Often times, you may feel like you are crazy, but what is really going on is that there is something off with the attachment bond between the two of you.

Escaping this destructive cycle is totally possible!

I specialize in working with couples. I work with helping couples to change the culture of their relationships. I help couples who love each other but who are caught in a negative cycle to transform the cycle that they are in. You can learn to transform the cycle that you got caught in!

I work with:

Couples,

Premarital counseling

Communication Problems,

Couples Counseling,

Couples Therapy,

EFT,

Emotion Focused Couples Therapy,

Emotion Focused Therapy,

High Conflict Couples,

Infidelity,

Spiritual Issues,

Love

History

Established in 2012.

Do you love your partner, but find that you are in a repetitive pattern of having the same painful fight (usually about nothing major) — but it feels major. — again and again?

I specialize in working with couples transform the culture of their relationship so that they can actually experience the love that they already have for each other. I have been informed by and received training from the lead authors in the country in how to work with couples including John Gottman, Dan Wiles, Sue Johnson, Harville Hendrix, and others.

In 2012, I co-​founded couples-​boot-​camp, a couples group that helps couples gain more couples skills to empower their partnerships!

I work with pre-​marital couples, couples who need a tune-​up, couples who are caught in painful cycles that feel hopeless, couples that have experienced an infidelity.

I used to think that getting help meant weakness. So, as a male therapist, I am aware of what it takes to help a GUY see the benefits of couples therapy!

Meet the Business Owner

Todd H.

Business Owner

I can help you transform your attachment bonds AND help you and your partner gain a capacity for empathy. Once your partner is on YOUR side, then transformation naturally happens.

Often, we get caught into annoying and Painful Repeating Patterns where one person feels their lover is not there and they exhibit clingy protest behaviors that are painful for both people. And the other partner longs to have more of their own space so that they can recover to have the room to choose to approach their partner (by withdrawing behaviors that are quite painful for their partner).

Before I learned how transform the bond, I taught couples how to communicate. The problem is that all of the perfect «I feel statements» and «nonviolent communication» in the world will not transform your relationship if you are caught in a nasty cycle where your attachment bond is (accidentally and unconsciously) undermined. Once that bond is empathically fixed, then those skills are easily learned do wonders!