National Institute of Marriage

If you are looking for a solution to marital strife, this is the place. There are 3 different areas to review — and in all areas NIM is incredible.
The most important is the area of helping couples through their marriage issues. The approach is simple. They learn about you, help you to identify the things that set each of you off (buttons), identify why those are important, and then talk about your wants and reactions. They pull in your past, but then help you understand that you are responsible, and that your past has given you uniqueness, but it doesn’t dictate who you are. They give you tools to breaking the cycle of reaction/​push/​reaction/​push. While this may sound trite, it gives great insight and a serious approach to problem solving. Is it complicated? Not a bit of it. Is it easy to implement? Unfortunately, it can be tough at first. Is it important? Absolutely.
Next, the grounds and accommodations are gorgeous. Also, there are no TVs. Talk about a place to have peace and quiet. Don’t disregard the importance of this. Basically, it is calming, even if you don’t realize it.
Finally, the food is crazy amazing. While you are in session there are 2 or more cooks making something special just for you. It is their ministry to serve you and you can tell. They are more than kind, they are loving.
If you are having serious issues, then you need to splurge and use this program. It can work, and they will give you a chance to heal and learn.